Sunday, July 30, 2017

Nsale Favorites - Part One

So I'm finally getting to share some of my favorite finds from the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale! I found so much good stuff that it took longer than I expected to take pictures off all the outfits, so I'm going to have to do a couple follow-up posts when I get the time to finish taking pictures! But for now here is the first batch of goodies.

** denotes Nsale item
Sweatshirt: Target (shop similar shirt)
Skirt: Halogen Pleat Faux Leather Skirt ** $79.90 (after sale $119.00)
Shoes: Ivanka Trump (shop similar shoes)




Sweater: Express (shop similar sweater)
**Skirt: TopShop Faux Leather Skirt $39.90 (after sale $60.00) size 6 (fits like 2-4)
**Shoes: Sam Edelman Rafaella Ballet Flats $99.90 (after sale $149.95) size 6.5



**Sweater: Leith Blousson Sleeve Sweater ** $45.90 (after sale $69.00) XS
Skirt: Talbots (shop similar skirt
Boots: Anne Klein (shop similar boots)




Sweater: Antonio Melani (exact sweater -- similar sweater)
**Skirt: Vince Camuto Windowpane Sweater Skirt $52.90 (after sale $79.00) XS
**Shoes: Charles David Rabbit Fur Pom-Pom $69.90 (after sale $109.95) size 6.5

Dress: Antonio Melani (exact dress in white)
**Jacket: Hinge Shrunken Leather Bomber Jacket $199.90 (after sale $299.00) XS
**Shoes: Sam Edelman Rafaella Ballet Flats $99.90 (after sale $149.95) size 6.5
Sunglasses: Ralph Lauren (exact glasses)

I'm completely obsessed with the things that I found on the Nsale! I can't wait for cooler weather so I can enjoy the sweaters and jackets. I've always been too scared to shop for clothes online because I always have to try things on since I'm a slightly weird shape. I found it super helpful that the website tells you if the garment runs small or large or true to size. With every garment I ordered it fit perfectly when it arrived! I couldn't be happier. The only garment in my whole haul that I had to buy a weird size was the TopShop Faux Leather skirt. I'm usually a pretty true size 2, but I am super curvy so I was concerned that it would be too tight, but it was actually perfect in the 6 (I was like what? I'm ordering a 6! It's never going to fit. Thanks UK sizing.). Make sure to shop the Nsale while it's still open (until next Sunday - August 6th)!! And stay tuned for more goodies as I get the chance to photograph them! 


Thursday, July 27, 2017

Baby Nsale

So when I first found out about the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale, I scurried over to see what kind of awesome finds there were to be had. I applied for my Nordstrom Card so I got early access and promptly spent a ton of money. And not until this morning did it occur to me to shop the baby Nsale! I'm not sure why this revelation took so long because my son's favorite Wubbanub came from Nordstrom. Twice. So this morning I tackled the baby sale. They have everything from clothes to strollers to diaper bags; anything you could want or need. They have especially cute things for little girls which made me slightly jealous. They even have baby jewelry for the little girls (adorable choking hazard anyone?). I didn't get quite the haul for the baby as I did for myself (let's be honest- thanks to baby showers that child has more clothes than me!) but I did find some cute things I wanted to share!

Tucker + Tait Isarsia Dog Sweater $22.90 (after sale $35)

I just thought this sweater was absolutely adorable! I got it in the 6 month size so Munchkin can wear it this fall! Be on the look out for adorable pictures. 


Nordstrom Baby Luxe Chenille Blanket $31.90 (after sale $49) 
 How sweet is this blanket? I can't wait to use it for Munchkin to play on, have his picture taken on, and when he's old enough it will be great for his to sleep under! My uncle got me a yellow one like this when I was baby, so I couldn't pass up a chance for my baby to have one too.
This little outfit just killed me. I'm a sucker for anything aviator themed; especially bomber jackets. So of course I couldn't turn down a baby bomber jacket!! Unfortunately, they didn't have a small enough size for Munchkin to wear it this fall so I got the 18 month size for next year. If only I can make it that long!! 

Monday, July 24, 2017

Urban Decay Partay!

So if you follow my blog on Instagram you got the see some pictures of the Urban Decay party that I went to at Ulta on Saturday. It was an absolute blast! I'm inevitably one of those people that find out about cool events like that after they have already happened. But this time I got in on it! So professional makeup artists that work for Urban Decay came in and basically took over Ulta for the day. You could schedule a free 20-30 minute session with them, or buy a $100 Ulta gift card and get an hour and half slot for a full makeover. Let's be honest: I went for the free session since I spent all my extra money on great finds from the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale (post coming soon!).

So they were doing this party as sort of the launch party for the Naked Heat eyeshadow palette. I've been seeing ads for the palette for a while, but honestly I was scared to try it. I know that sounds silly from the girl who will wear just about any color and even wear gray lipstick. But while I absolutely adore the colors in the Heat palette, any time I've tried to use those colors on my eyes I looked like I was having an allergy attack. But after the UD makeup artist showed me how to use it and mix and layer the colors correctly, I'm obsessed!! And besides, that Heat palette are the exact colors that are in for the fall season. When all my goodies arrive from the Nsale I'll show you how great the colors mesh! So I wanted to share my pictures and insights with you to let you know that you should embrace the Heat too!



The next two pictures are of my eye makeup once the Urban Decay makeup artist used the Heat Palette on my eyes 




So naturally, on Sunday I tried to replicate the artist's work from Saturday. I did a slightly different lid color though. 




I've officially decided that other than Younique (you can't beat all-natural, healthy, well-priced makeup!) that Urban Decay is my favorite makeup brand. I love all of their eyeshadows and eye- liners and lipsticks and lip-liners. 

Let's take a minute and talk about the lipstick that I have on in these pictures. Its all the same in each picture: it's called Sheer Liar (used with Manic lip pencil). Looking at the lipstick in the tube, this would never have been a color that I would have gravitated toward. I would've thought that it looked too matronly. But I looooove it!!! It's my absolutely new favorite pinky-neutral. The UD artist picked this one to complete the look that she did on me at the party and its amazing. I hadn't used this particular formula from UD and its incredible! Its super moist and hydrating and slightly shiny and yet it lasts all day like a matte long-wear! I was completely shocked when I went through my coffee, lunch, and a nap and it still essentially looked the same. I've never experienced that with a regular lipstick. I'm officially obsessed. And I plan on going back to see what other colors they have in this unicorn of a lipstick. 

There was something else fabulous that the Urban Decay artist introduced me to, and that is their new eyeshadow primer called Sin. This stuff in incredible; it's basically a sparkly, champagne cream eyeshadow but its also a primer. So it actually primes your lid and is also your neutral base color. And it gives a sparkle to any eye shadow you put over it. It's like fairy dust and I'm hooked. 

And speaking of fairy dust, my last earth-shattering find at the party was the brand new Urban Decay Vice Special Effect Lip Topcoats. Oh. My. Word. These things are incredible!! They're $18, so its basically like buying another lipstick, but they go on top of your lipstick or they can be worn alone. They have everything from coral (the one I got - its called Fever) to red to even teal. They're glittery and also iridescent. They either add life to a lipstick or they can change the color all together, depending on what you want. I wore it on top of my Sheer Liar lipstick in the Sunday pictures, but I just put it on my cupid's bow and the middle of my bottom lip to add some extra shine and a little pucker to my lipstick. 

So make sure you check out these new and awesome Urban Decay products! And be sure to check to see if the party is coming to an Ulta near you to help you get geared up for fall! 

Tuesday, July 11, 2017

Maternity fashion: Staying stylish while round

So here I am again, writing a much overdo post. This time, however, I have an incredibly valid excuse: I had a baby! He's the cutest sweetest little thing in the whole world and I'm totally smitten and in love! However, His Royal Cuteness is a ton of work, so combine loving on preciousness and trying to get back to a regular work schedule, and it hasn't left much time for this post that has been simmering for about three months or so.

It was maybe two weeks before my son was born that one of my friends commented on how cute my maternity clothes were and how I should do a maternity style blog post. I had to laugh at myself because after all, that's exactly what this blog is for! And how could I not have thought of that myself?! So at that point I felt like a beached whale and some of my cute outfits didn't fit anymore, or didn't fit well anymore so I tried to get as many pictures of outfits as I could.

A couple months before I got pregnant, a friend and fellow fashion blogger wrote a fabulous post about her maternity style and she bought clothes and what she bought. It was a huge help to me when it became my turn to buy clothes. (It was the July 30, 2016 post on Coffeeclothesrepeat.blogspot.com) Now I hope to do the same thing for some other fashionista who is lamenting the loss of her normal, fabulous wardrobe.

I'm a firm proponent that leggings are not pants, however, I didn't have a choice in the matter for the first few months of my pregnancy. None of my pants fit (even with the rubber band around the button trick) after about a month, but I wasn't even anywhere close to fitting into maternity pants. So I went with leggings. I found a brown pair and a gray pair of leggings (that were real fabric, not dignified hose) at T.J.Maxx. My first trimester was spent in Indiana, and most of it was cold. I'm not convinced that Indiana is ever actually warm, but I suppose that's beside the point. So that first trimester, and the first month or so of the second trimester I basically wore leggings and then I bought regular sweaters and long-sleeved t-shirts at Loft that were a size or two bigger than what I normally wore, and paired them together.

The rest of my pregnancy was spent in South Carolina, where I live, and it was anything but cold. Some of the sweaters continued to work through the rest of the "winter" and some ended up being too heavy. However, my tool for survival was maxi dresses and other loose-fitting dresses. I'm slightly obsessed with maxi dresses to begin with (I confess that I own far too many), but this time my obsession paid off. Most maxi dresses stretch in all the right places and are perfect for maternity use without having to buy a maternity dress.

One of my best friends lent me her maternity clothes which consisted of a few dresses, a pair of jeans, and a top or two. And then another friend lent me her maternity shorts. Both were absolute life-savers!! So if you have friends who are about your size and you don't abhor their style, ask to borrow stuff! And if you're the one with the clothes and your friends are pregnant, offer to let them borrow things. It is absurd how much maternity clothes cost just because the retailers know that you have no choice. I think taking such advantage of a hormonal, pregnant woman is just awful: but that's an entirely different conversation.

About the middle of my second trimester I finally broke down and bought some maternity clothes because I needed real pants, and I needed some black outfits to wear when I played for weddings and other gigs (considering that my real life job is as a professional violinist). So off to Pea in a Pod I went. Now I'm all about designer labels, I'll admit, but them wanting $200 for a pair of jeans about killed me! If I didn't pay $200 for regular jeans I wasn't about to pay $200 for jeans that I was only going to wear for four months. Thankfully I found a pair that wasn't quite as awfully priced. So I ended up getting a pair of jeans, two pairs of dress pants, a white lace top, and then I got a black skirt, a black lace top, and a black dress for performing. And that ladies, is all the maternity clothes I bought. Period. And the lace tops and the dress are styled so that I'm still wearing them even though I'm back to a normal size human. And another thing, those "maternity camisoles" that they're going to try and make you buy at the store? Unless you're like six feet tall you don't need those. Your normal camisoles will stretch and be fine and will go back and still fit you correctly post-baby. Promise. Another well-kept secret? Belly bands. They're fabulous elastic bands that can be bought cheaply at Target and they hold up your pants so you can wear your normal pants up to the very last minute, even when they no longer zip. I had a flesh colored one and black one and they enabled me to wear my regular dress pants up until about my early third trimester.

So, if I could give you my must haves for being pregnant, this would be my list.

  • Normal size maxi dresses (the more the better!)
  • Normal size jackets 
  • One or two interesting vests to add flair to t-shirts and dresses 
  • At least two pairs of stretchy waisted real fabric leggings
  • Multiple normal size loose and flowy blouses (crepe, lace, etc) 
  • Maternity jeans
  • Maternity shorts 
  • Maternity dress slacks 
  • Loose fitting normal size interesting t-shirts 
  • Normal size maxi skirts with elastic waists 
  • A couple maternity shirts if needed (I only needed them for formal wear)
  • Two or three maternity dresses (for when nothing else fits) 


So all that to say, besides the maxi dresses (which I didn't get to take pictures of while I was pregnant), here are some of my favorite maternity outfits that I put together. I hope that it helps with your shopping and your style so that you can still feel like yourself even though you're growing another person!

Dress: Gap Maternity 
Vest: Stein Mart 
Shoes: Michael Kors (purchased at Belk) 
Necklace: So Good Jewelry 

Dress: Stein Mart
Shoes: Ivanka Trump (from Nordstrom Rack) 
Earrings: Local Artisan (from Merle Norman)
Watch: Michael Kors
Bracelet: Michael Kors 


Top: Pea in a Pod Maternity
Skirt: Pea in a Pod Maternity 
Shoes: Charles David (from Belk)
Earrings: So Good Jewelry 


Top: Cable and Gauge (from Nordstrom Rack)
Shorts: Old Navy Maternity 
Shoes: Michael Kors (from Belk)
Earrings: Belk
Necklace: So Good Jewelry 

Dress: Motherhood Maternity 
Jacket: Jessica Simpson (from Belk)
Shoes: Michael Kors (from Belk)
Earrings: So Good Jewelry 
Shirt: Calvin Klein (from Nordstrom Rack)
Slacks: Pea in a Pod Maternity 
Jacket: White House Black Market 
Shoes: Steve Madden (from Belk)
Sunglasses: Kate Spade (from Nordstrom Rack) 
Earrings: Saks Off Fifth 
T-Shirt: White House Black Market 
Vest: Stein Mart
Jeans: Pea in a Pod Maternity 
Shoes: Michael Kors (from Belk) 
Earrings: So Good Jewelry
Bracelet: So Good Jewelry
Ring: Local Artisan (from the City Market) 


Sunday, March 19, 2017

Review of "The High Calling of Motherhood"

So this post is going to be a little bit different. Welcome to the next stop on the month-long blog book tour for the new book The High Calling of Motherhood by Chimene Shipley Dupler! Yesterday the tour stopped at  www.amamascorneroftheworld.com and tomorrow it will be at www.kellyparkison.com. Be sure to check out their posts for their own unique perspective on the book. The publishers are holding a "Winner's Choice" giveaway for blog participants and for blog followers. The winner will get to choose between a custom made “World Changer” necklace by The Giving Keys or two tickets to attend the Passion4Moms conference being held in DC, May 5-6, 2017. You can use this link to access the giveaway! https://gleam.io/iAlu8/the-high-of-calling-of-motherhood-blog-tour-giveawaywww.facebook.com/passion4moms 


The book is available for pre-order on:



If this post, or any of the other ones along the book tour, pique your interest you can follow the author on social media on Facebook, instagram, and twitter. 



So who is this author? And why should we even bother consider listening to her? Well, Chimene Shipley Dupler is the Founder and President/CEO of Pink Polka Dot Productions and Passion4Moms ministry. She is a well-respected speaker on marriage and parenting who has her B.S. Degree from Baylor University in Child and Family Studies. And most importantly, she's a mom! 


When I agreed to be a part of this blog book tour, I did it as a favor for a friend in my Facebook mom group. I'm generally super skeptical about any kind of parenting book; especially with all the new and popular parenting techniques that I know I disagree with. I know, I know: my kid isn't actually here yet, so to some that calls into question my authority on parenting and parenting techniques, but I believe that what Chimene says her book about being a mother is strictly Biblical. Maybe when I'm actually chasing an obstinate toddler I will apply the principles differently than I anticipate, but I know I will definitely be using them and following her advice! 

There were two big themes that stood out to me as I read this book. The first theme is the dangerous trap of comparison, and the other theme is the importance of intentional parenting. 

We all know that we aren't supposed to compare our lives to the other women we know, but we all know that we do it anyway. Reading this book was a great reminder of why we have to be so careful. As women we always seem to be looking to everyone else for approval for our choices, and Chimene brought out how being a mother only acerbates this instinct in us. Are our kids as far along developmentally as so-and-so's? Is my daughter doing as well in ballet as my friend's daughter? Why did so-and-so's son get on the club team but mine didn't? And on and on it goes. We look to everyone around us as the measuring stick of what our child should be doing and what being a successful parent looks like rather than reveling in the child's personal accomplishments and enjoying the moments with them. Not only does comparison kill our own personal joy and make us feel inadequate, but it also teaches our children to look to others for their validation, and that can be very dangerous. I've personally run into this already as I get ready to welcome my little munchkin. Everyone has an opinion that they feel they need to share, and while I appreciate the interest that prompts this need, I have already discovered that I have to make decisions for myself and my child. I'm responsible to God and God alone for the choices I make for my child and my ultimate validation as a mother shouldn't be that people are condoning my decisions, but rather that I know I've prayed about each decision I've made and that I know that I'm making the best decision that I possibly can for my child. There is absolutely nothing wrong with sharing stories, getting advice from friends, and celebrating other children's accomplishments! We just have to make sure that we remember that every child is different and every experience that they have should be for their enrichment and training and not to make us look good as a parent or give us some kind of parental prestige. Each family is different and we have to make a conscious effort to be thankful for everything we can be. Not every family is going to look the same, and when we expect them to we set ourselves up to feel guilty when ours doesn't look the way we think it's supposed to. 


The other big theme that stood out to me as I read this book, was the importance of intentional parenting. We live in a culture where families are child-centric and the children are allowed to run the home under the pretext of catering to their "needs". Then one day they wake up to realize that the children have reared the parents and have the parents trained to give them exactly what they want. That does the children a great disservice. I have always held the belief that children should be trained to be adults, not trained to be perpetual children, and this is a principal that Chimene spent some time discussing. In recent months we have seen a great deal on the national front of what happens when adults were raised to be children who got everything they wanted when they wanted it. Each child is a gift to their respective family and with that gift comes the parental responsibility to actively raise that child to be the best person they can be - in every way. For us that are Christians, that means that God expects us to intentionally train our children to be obedient, caring, thoughtful, unselfish and respectful to authority, and to love Him with all their hearts. It's not the easy way to parent, but it's the right way. We do no service to a child when we let them be disobedient, make excuses for their bad behavior, and allow them to get away with things by just saying "they'll grow out of it" or "they're just kids" or "boys will be boys". Things don't change without conscious effort, and a child's character is no different. Chimene told a personal story that brings this point home. She told the story of how she was out spending time shopping with her mother-in-law and her toddler was throwing a fit and being disobedient. She told her daughter that if she didn't get her behavior squared away and start behaving, that they were going to go home and she would take a nap. She continued in her disobedience and so they went home. It wasn't fun for Chimene or for her mother-in-law, but it was an important moment to teach her child that mother means what she says, and that disobedience will not tolerated. Those kind of uncomfortable moments are what make a strong, well-adjusted, mature, godly adult. Honestly, yes, I'm dreading having to make those kind of decisions and yes I'm absolutely dreading being inconvenienced by a tiny human. But as the title of this book reminds us, being a mother is important calling that is given directly by God and held in high esteem by God. And He makes no mistakes! The little phrase "God doesn't call the equipped, He equips the called" is never more true than in this capacity. He promises to never give us more than we can handle, and to never leave us. And yes that applies to motherhood as well! Every if we feel like we are having to do it all alone, we aren't. 

If you're frustrated with where you are on your journey as a mother, I definitely recommend that you check out this book. It was a huge encouragement to me, and I know that it will be to you as well!! 

Sunday, February 12, 2017

Is Natural Worth It?

The automatic answer is yes!! And you're probably already thinking, "Natural what? I mean there is so much that goes into that category!" Well today we are talking natural skin care and makeup. While most people tend to think of eating clean and organic, and even using organic cleaning products (also definitely worth it), most people forget about their skincare and makeup, and that's a big mistake! Turns out, skincare and makeup are a huge component in living a better and healthier life. Everything that we put on our skin gets into our bloodstream in just 26 seconds and most makeup brands are loaded with chemicals, irritants and even roadkill! And skincare products aren't much better with chemicals, and allergens and unnecessary harsh treatments.

But before you write me off as one of those "crunchy" people who is trying to save the world and the trees, I'm not. When I had friends start jumping on the "all natural" bandwagon I was skeptical. Partly because I was in love with the makeup I was using and didn't want to change, and partly because I had struggled with my skin for so long and it was the clearest it had ever been and I didn't want to mess it up. But, I was spending tons of money and I couldn't have told you what most of the ingredients in my products were, let alone accurately pronounce them! Some of those ingredients? Triclosan, parabens, sodium laurel sulfate, butylated hydroxyanisole, and phthalates. Have no idea what those are? Yeah, me neither. Until I started reading up on them.

Triclosan and Triclocarban are a common chemical used in antibacterial bar and hands soaps that actually impairs your immune system. Parabens are a common preservative used in shampoos, lotions, and cosmetics. If it ends in "-paraben" and starts with something like "methyl-", "isobutyl-" or "propyl-" it will mimic estrogen in your body and is linked to cancer. Sodium lauryl sulfate and sodium laureth sulfate are surfactants commonly found in shampoo, bubble bath, and body wash and are likely to cause acne. Counter productive anyone? Butylated hydroxyanisole is a likely carcinogen found in lipstick and makeup. Phthalates, such as DBP, DEHP, DEP and others, are chemicals often found in fragrances, nail polish, and hairspray, are known to interfere with the endocrine system. Convinced yet? Or at least worried? I was!

I mean, let's be realistic. We can't cut all the chemicals and harmful junk out of our lives, but I think it's definitely realistic to find ways to cut out of a lot of them! And through this experiment I've discovered that actually making my own skincare and cleaning products is significantly cheaper than buying the regular ones, and I actually know what's going into them!! Now, I will state up front that most of the things that I have tried aren't my recipes, so I'll let you in on the secrets of where I found them.

Still skeptical? That's ok. I was too. See, I had struggled with my skin for about 12 years. I had acne on my face, my arms, my back, and my chest. I felt like I couldn't wear sleeveless tops most of the time, and swimsuits were hit or miss, and I definitely wasn't going out in public without makeup on. I had been under the care of a dermatologist the whole time and they had tried just about every type of treatment on me. I had done microdermabrasion, silk peel, chemical peels, blue light treatments, Differin, Retin-A, and just about every other prescription cream, Proactive, Proactive Plus, prescription washes that I don't even remember the names of, and even specially dermatologist formulated washes and oral antibiotics and nothing made a significant difference. The doctors wanted to put me on something like Acutane but my mom had heard too many horror stories and so we didn't go that route. The only makeup that I could wear was incredibly expensive and came from France so it was seriously to get when I ran out. So finally about a year ago I was just fed up. The transition started on a total whim. I remembered that the aesthetician in my dermatologist's office always used tea tree oil products on me after a microdermabrasion, so I when I saw a bottle of tea tree oil in Trader Joe's I thought, "Hmm, why not?" So I bought it. And that was just the beginning. I'll take you through all the products that I've start using and give you the recipes!



So in the morning I start by washing my face with coconut oil soap. And then I use the tea tree oil as a toner, followed by a orange jojoba oil serum and I finish off with Obagi Luxe Hydration moisturizer  (the only thing in my AM routine that I don't make).

Coconut Oil Soap
http://www.mommypotamus.com/how-to-make-pure-coconut-oil-soap-for-cleansing-and-laundry/

I followed the recipe from the link, and then I added .25 oz of Pure Peppermint Essential Oil, .25oz of Pure Eucalyptus Essential Oil, and about a .5 oz of the topical Tea Tree Oil. (I used the same oils in the same ratio for the laundry soap in this link, but I'll get to that in a minute). Tea Tree Oil and Eucalyptus Oil are natural antiseptics, the Peppermint just smells good, and the Coconut Oil is moisturizing.

Tea Tree Oil
Well this comes in a bottle, so it requires very minimum effort. The only thing slightly confusing about Tea Tree Oil is that you can get the Pure Essential Oil which requires diluting, and then you can get Tea Tree Oil that is processed specially for topical use without dilution. The second type is what I use. I have found that the Trader Joe's brand is the cheapest and works fabulously! All you have to do it just use with a cotton ball. I use it on my face and arms and back and everything. I love it. Its a natural antiseptic so it kills the germs that cause acne. It is basically the natural alternate to benzoyl peroxide, which is the active ingredient in most acne washes and medicines. The problem with benzoyl peroxide is that it dries out the skin as it kills the germs. That in turn causes the oil glands to over-produce because they think that it's needed, and therefore the breakouts continue. Tea Tree oil does the killing of the germs without the drying out of the skin, so it actually stops the vicious cycle.

Orange Jojoba Serum
This one is fairly simple. It is just jojoba oil and Sweet Orange Oil. So I start with about an ounce of jojoba oil (also use the Trader Joe's brand on this one) and then add about 60 drops of the orange oil. Sweet orange oil is good for brightening up scars and dark spots on the skin and the jojoba oil conditions and moisturizes the skin. The more moisture the less likely to get wrinkles. I just use two sprays on a cotton pad and wipe over my face and neck.

Obagi Luxe Hydration Moisturizer
I absolutely love this moisturizer. In fact, this is the only moisturizer from which I have seen consistent results. It feels heavy in the jar, but on the skin it emulsifies quickly and leaves no residue. I also use their facial sunscreen. It's really the only brand that I trust for those two products.

So that wraps up my AM skincare routine. Before I go on and talk about my makeup, I'll go through my PM routine. I'll admit, I'm one of those people that never can manage to wash my face before I go to bed. I realize that is terrible for your skin and also leads to breakouts, so I knew that things needed to change. So now I keep all my nighttime beauty products by my bed and I do the whole routine once I lay down for the night, and it actually gets done! I start by taking off my mascara with jojoba oil, then I take off my makeup with Younique Shine Makeup Remover Wipes, I follow that with a Geranium Brightening Moisturizer and Avocado Eye Cream. I rub the residue from applying the moisturizer into my hands and then put Merle Norman Super Lube on my cuticles. And after I take my gummy Hair and Nail vitamins (yep I'm one of those), I use EOS chapstick and top it off with a Peppermint Vitamin E Oil. And then its off to sleep!

Eye Makeup Removal
I grew up with my mom using Vaseline to take off her mascara, and when I got to the age where I started wearing mascara she taught me to do the same thing. I just hated the mess that it made, and honestly it still took so long. I mean it's faster than bottled eye makeup remover (which for me always took forever) but it still was too long for my patience. And I hated the greasy mess that it made. And it never seemed to get all the makeup off so it would get on my pillowcase and sheets. So I started sleeping in my mascara (I know, it makes your lashes fall out!) and then taking it off in the morning right before I washed my face so I could get rid of the residue. And then I switched to jojoba oil. It only takes a few drops for each eye, the makeup comes right off, and there isn't a residue. Because the makeup comes off so easily there is less pulling on your eye which equals less wrinkles. And it also moisturizes your eye skin, which normal makeup removers don't, and which Vaseline actually doesn't because of the petroleum in it.

Younique Shine Cleansing Cloths
Though most wipes won't admit this to you, they are only supposed to be used to remove makeup before face washing; they won't actually cleanse your skin or help prevent breakouts. These wipes, however, are different. They are made by a brand that makes everything all natural and chemical and allergen free, so even to start out its a better choice. The wipes are made with a blend of sunflower and olive oils, rosemary, jojoba and vitamin E. They take off the makeup, cleanse your skin, and moisturize it too while they're at it.

Geranium Brightening Moisturizer *
The jojoba oil and the geranium oil help regulate the skin's oil production without clogging the pores. Sandalwood is a natural anti-inflammatory to decrease redness of the skin and blemishes, and the vitamin C in the lemon oil fights acne and dark spots. I just use the built in dropper on the bottle to dispense in my hand, and then I gently rub/pat all over my face, neck and chest.

2T jojoba oil
2T grape seed oil
18 drops geranium essential oil
8 drops sandalwood essential oil  (already diluted)
2 drops of lemon essential oil

Combine and store in a dark glass bottle.

Avocado Eye Cream *
Avocado oil is a natural wrinkle fighter, and is high in Vitamin E, and the shea butter is another moisturizer. The skin around the eyes dries out and wrinkles the fastest, so using a eye cream is imperative much earlier than we tend to think! I use my fingertip to just pat the cream around my eye and then let emulsify the rest of the way while I'm sleeping.

1T shea butter
1T avocado oil
1t vitamin E oil

Melt shea butter in a hot water bath on the stove. Once it has cooled for 2-3 minutes add the avocado and vitamin E oil. Stir to combine, and continue stirring while the mixture cools to create a creamy texture. I store this in a cute little jar.


Merle Norman Super Lube
This product was one of those that I grew up around because my mom and my aunt used it. If you have read my post on my must have products then you already know how I feel about this. While this product does have petroleum in it, it also does have mineral oil so it gives great moisture. The mineral oil ends up doing most of the moisturizing work while the petroleum creates the barrier against the air to let it do it's work.  It really works like a dream and I don't know what I would do without it.


EOS lip balm
This is also one of the products I talked about in my must-have post. I absolutely love this product. It's great because it is 95% organic and 100% natural and it's easily accessible and fairly inexpensive. It also paraben and petroleum free but packed with vitamin E, jojoba oil, and shea butter. In my opinion it doesn't get any better than that!


Peppermint Vitamin E Oil 
I got a .3 oz amber glass roller bottle and filled it with half vitamin E oil, and half Peppermint Essential Oil. Vitamin E helps heal and moisturize dry lips while the Peppermint Oil is a natural lip plumper. And yes you can feel it working. It's pretty cool in my opinion.


The other component of my skincare regimen is my bath routine. I also use the coconut oil soap for bathing, as well as washing my face. I have four or five different bath salts that I have made that I rotate with each bath. The only other product I use in the bathtub is an exfoliating sugar scrub by Shea Moisture. After my bath I use Tea Tree oil as a toner on my back, arms and chest (the same way I use it on my face), and then moisturize with Stress-Melting Body Butter.


Bath Salts
I started with Dr. Teal's Epsom Salts and for each cup of salts I added to the glass jar, I added 10 drops of each essential oil. I did several different combinations: Lavender Salts with Wyndmere Sleepy Time Oil; Chamomile Salts with Geranium and Sandalwood Oils; Milk and Honey Salts with Almond Oil and Bergamot, Sweet Orange, and Lemon Oils; and Lavender Salts with Lemongrass, Peppermint and Eucalyptus Oils.


Shea Moisture Coconut and Hibiscus Scrub
This exfoliating scrub feels amazing and is completely natural and has ethically traded and sustainably produced ingredients. The shea butter, coconut oil, jojoba oil, olive oil and vitamin E are healing and moisturizing. The hibiscus and chamomile extracts are firming, toning and calming to the skin. I use it once a week on my whole body and also about once a week on my face. Right now I use it every bath on my baby bump to help prevent stretch marks and I have at least myself convinced that it is working!


Stress-Melting Body Butter *
Stress saps magnesium from your cells and can cause anxiety, fatigue, headaches and muscle cramps. Magnesium is a natural muscle relaxer so it helps with cramps and also general relaxation. The essential oil mixture is a mood-boaster and helps you relax. I use this as my main lotion over my whole body after every bath. My skin loves it!

¼ c shea butter
¼ c coconut oil
¼ c cocoa butter
¼ c magnesium oil
10 drops orange essential oil
10 drops bergamot essential oil
10 drops frankincense essential oil (already diluted)

Melt shea butter, coconut oil, and cocoa butter in hot water bath on the stove. Let cool for a few minutes and then add magnesium oil and essential oils. Refrigerate for 30 minutes, and then whip with a hand mixer on medium for 3-5 minutes. Store in a lidded glass container.



Just because your makeup and your laundry products aren't part of your daily skincare doesn't mean that it shouldn't be! Switching to homemade laundry detergent and all natural makeup were the final components to getting my skin to be completely clear! It was like a magic trick!

Homemade Laundry Detergent
I use the same coconut oil recipe as for the bath soap, except the lye-coconut oil ratio is slightly different so that the laundry soap doesn't sud too much. But all that is all explained in the link. And with it being a lower sud soap it can be used with HE washing machines. You grind up the soap and mix it with washing soda and then add lemon essential oil to each load. I use 3-5 tablespoons of detergent per load depending on the size. I use Downy Free and Clear fabric softener and the Bounce Scent Free dryer sheets. With laundry products, a lot of the skin irritants are found in the fragrance.


Younique Cosmetics
This makeup brand is a complete lifesaver for me. All of the products are completely natural, chemical, irritant and allergen free. Even product has a ingredient list printed right on the website so you can see what each product contains, and the purpose of each ingredient. I was incredibly skeptical of using natural makeup, because most of the natural brands have products that don't actually react the way normal makeup brands do, and the concentration of the colors are low, and they just end up being poor quality makeup, or they ingredients in them that people are allergic to. This brand, however, is different. The colors are incredible, the foundation and concealer actually match your skin tone and have incredible coverage and yet feel like you have nothing on. My skin absolutely loves it and keeps getting better and better! And the best part is that everything in this line of makeup and skincare is significantly cheaper than a brand you would buy at Sephora or Ulta. So, you're saving money and making your skin happy! You can't get any better than that!

youniqueproducts.com/AudraClaire

So now I challenge you to take the step and make the lifestyle change to natural skincare and makeup! Don't let the idea be daunting. It really doesn't take much time and your skin and your general health will definitely thank you. I'm here to tell you that!


* Recipes taken from the book "Hello Glow" by Stephanie Gerber


Sunday, May 29, 2016

Stopping the Waiting Game

Beside their name and age, what seems to be the first question that adults always ask kids? "What do you want to be when you grow up?" As if a five-year-old has his entire career path planned at this point. And who decided that you could only be one thing when you "grow up"? And what does that even mean? I think that we start putting unnecessary pressure on kids to figure out what they're "doing with their lives", and that never goes away. I mean what eighteen-year-old is really ready to commit to one thing for the rest of their lives? I think the statistics of how many people change their majors and how many people end up working in a field other than their major, speak for themselves. And that pressure continues once one actually "grows up". Its almost as if life is a waiting game until you "accomplish" something and become whatever your plan was to be when you "grew up". You might have some fun moments or good memories before that point, but it doesn't amount to anything significant because it is sort of the "purgatory" phase of life.

Where did this faulty perspective come from? We do it with so many things - we have everyday clothes and shoes and makeup and dishes, and we save the nicer clothes and shoes and dishes and the glam makeup for Sunday, or going out, or some other elusive "special occasion". We spend our lives waiting for that occasion to feel pretty or successful. Life shouldn't be a waiting game for any reason. Every day is a gift and every moment has the potential to be a life-altering crossroad, or to make an amazing memory. So stop putting everything on hold. Without wearing clothes out of season, or wearing a cocktail dress to the gym, wear whatever you want! Every day. Each morning is your chance to walk your own personal runway and make your own impact on the people around you. You will act the way you are dressed, so go ahead and the wear the glitter eye shadow and heels on Monday morning. The prettier you feel, the more confident you will be, and the more likely you will be to seize your day and what you want from it.

That's the last part of this mindset change. Part of not playing the waiting game is not waiting on your dreams to be just handed to you. But at the same time just because you're working at Cracker Barrel to pay bills while you're auditioning for an anchor job doesn't mean you're a failure. You still get to seize every day and every opportunity remotely related to what you love. You never know who you will meet or what might be offered to you. Live every day so that you don't have to look back and say 'if only I had looked nice that day", or "I looked awful in that picture because I didn't care that day". Have no regrets. Always be the best version of yourself inside and out and you won't ever have any.



"Walk like you have three men walking behind you." - Oscar de la Renta

"In difficult times, fashion is always outrageous." - Elsa Schiaparelli

"Vain trifle as they seem, clothes have, they say, more important offices than to merely keep us warm. They change our view of the world and the world's view of us." - Virginia Woolf


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